28.1.15

(Seasonal) Dreams Do Come True*

28.1.15 Posted by Nikki Carlson , , , No comments
Yesterday was a pretty great day.  I landed my dream job.

Well, technically, I "landed" it by accident a few weeks ago.  And as Jeff Goins states in one of his posts, it's probably more accurately a "seasonal commitment" towards my dream job.  But regardless of the technicalities, I'm stoked.
For the past few months, I have been utilizing HelpX (a work/travel site) to connect with hosts from around the world in attempt to learn new skills and explore new cultures while I travel.  It hasn't been an obsessive commitment, but it's been consistently on my radar.  Finally, my half-assed emailing and less-than-ideal timing collided in southern Portugal because of a last minute change.

So, you ask, what is this "Dream Job"?

I'm working at a hostel.  (Check out the website here.)  Think hotel-esque reception tasks: tours for new guests, cleaning dorm rooms, being in charge of the intense task of picking the hostel music, inviting people to our family style dinners, helping confused and giggling guests find their room after self-directed pub crawls, setting up breakfast, and the like.  In general, I'm supposed to talk with guests and make sure everyone's happy.  Talk to other travelers and be happy?  Twist my arm.
For years, I have toyed with the idea of running a hostel or bed and breakfast at some point "down the road".  After a brief run in with restaurant management, I knew that the road towards that end point would be arduous and filled with moments of doubt, if in fact it remained my own personal goal.  I needed to start small and build from there, enjoying the process and taking it easy.  Well, 'Day 1' has finally come.

Over these past few months, I have been on an interesting journey of self discovery.  In between border-crossings and cultural exchanges, I have shaken up and dusted off old dreams.  Taking my time and giving these abstract thoughts consideration and form, then re-forming them, and then finally sleeping on them for a few more months has been just what I needed.  As the saying goes, patience (or as some less optimistic onlookers may say laziness and distractedness) is a virtue.  The fit here is great.
Like many, the past few years have held a multitude of chapters for me.  There have been moments of personal accomplishment, gut-wrenching heartbreak, extreme happiness, and moments of clarity and confusion in spades.  

Last night after completing my first day on the job, I walked down to the pier to an incredible sunset while soaking up my new "hood" (before getting impressively lost on my way home, especially considering the size of Faro).  While I was soaking it in, I reflected on some of these moments.  I found myself laughing out loud.  It wasn't some sort of a crazy witch cackle, and, no, thanks for asking, I had not been drinking on the job.
Old Instagram Picture
I laughed because my thoughts drifted ever so momentarily to a few key voices that had attempted in vain to keep me from getting to this point.  There weren't many of them, but there were a few.  I just smiled as I thought about how lucky I am that I have always had a bit of trouble hearing, thanks to incessant ear issues as a child.  

I am far from deaf, but I guess for all of the ear tube surgeries, infections, ear drops and lookin' like a fool in the pool with my ear plugs and swim cap throughout my childhood, I gained an incredible gift.  Deafness to the haters.  I didn't dwell on these thoughts for too long, but I just laughed to think that I might not have followed my heart to get to this place, both physical and emotional, and pursue my dream, however seasonal, in traveling and hostel employment.  I'm glad that I chose to, in the wise words of Ms. Taylor Swift, "Shake It Off" when those voices came along.  

The result: Portuguese hostel bliss.
Part of our common area at Casa D'Alagoa
So to everyone who has been asked or who is asking what exactly I'm doing with my life - I have no clue. (Does anyone? Because if you said yes, you're deranged or lying.  Probably both.)  You wake up and take one day at a time.  Today and tomorrow the plan is to chill at the front desk of Casa d'Alagoa and chat with likeminded humans and see what surprises the day holds for me.  Most likely, that includes an evening sunset by the pier, followed by some great conversations and new friendships.

Spoiler Alert for my "immediate future": after my three days of work, I get two days off.  Since I'll probably be exhausted from my off the charts happiness at watching one of my dreams begin to take form, I've planned a well deserved escape for R&R to Lisbon.  Life is tough sometimes, people...

*This post is brag-adocious, I already know that.  My life is amazing, so #sorrynotsorry.  If it makes you feel any better, I hope that yours is, too.

13.1.15

Relaxing & Ringing in the New Year

13.1.15 Posted by Nikki Carlson , , , , No comments
Exploring the incredible Hassan II Mosque in Casablanca
Over the past month, I’ve been doing some hardcore nothing in Morocco (yep, you read that correctly!), and it’s been perfect.
The Royal Palace grounds in Rabat
When I landed in Casablanca a month ago, I enjoyed time in both Casa (as it’s called here) and Rabat before heading to a small village on the coast called Taghazout, which is located outside of Agadir.  
Hassan II Mosque
Exploring the Moroccan cities had been fun, but I wanted to take some time at the end of 2014 to just sit still by myself and reflect, especially after such an action packed November.   
Wandering through the Kasbah of Oudaïa in Rabat
Through an introduction by a friend from my travels, I was introduced to Abdu, a cool guy who owns and runs Ocean Surf House in the small surf town.   
Paradise Valley outside of Agadir
My friend, Tatiana, is now working in Casa, so when I was I there we were able to have dinner together, which was an unexpected treat.
My first Moroccan henna
Taghazout is a very small surfing village.  Think teeny-tiny small.  Now, it’s smaller than that.  The closest ATM is a fifteen-minute ride away, if that helps.   
Lazy Taghazout afternoon
Also, being a small Moroccan town, you cannot purchase any alcohol (though it was imported for us for the holiday festivities, thanks to Abdu!).  
It’s been nice to have a “detox” from all of the late nights and crazy adventures from the past year, though the fact that alcohol sales are illegal made the cleanse slightly mandatory.  Regardless, my mind and liver have openly embraced the change.  I have even started drinking tea instead of coffee, which if you know me is a big deal.  I am fairly confident that neither of these changes will be permanent, but both have been nice for my body over the past few weeks.
During my time in Taghazout, I have been reading (my Reading on the Road list has exploded), exploring the surrounding region, chatting with locals, celebrating the holidays with new friends, laying out and enjoying the great weather, studying French (one of my 2015 Resolutions and Bucket List items), and reflecting on the past year. 
A funeral procession for a famous Moroccan artist in Rabat
On a more “productive” day, I forced myself to go through all of my pictures from 2014.  Force is a strong word, but I have been avoiding it for a while.  I had some technical issues in the fall (if you know me, I always seem to have some technical issues…), and between that fact and being easily distracted, I was shocked when I had finally organized and edited all of them.  
Paradise Valley
Sifting through the 4,000+ pictures was a great experience.  It is a good thing that there are only a handful of possible activities here, as well as a semi-present language barrier.  I was reminded of the absolutely incredible year that I had and all of the amazing people with whom I was able to share it.

As I write this, I’m at my (yes, I am a local here now) little café watching some surfers try and catch their last perfect wave of the day while a local guy tries to coerce tourists into riding his camel across the beach, all while the sun sets perfectly in the background.  Not a bad way to start 2015…